Ok guys dont bash on me to bad! Yes as some say im fixing to give up my man card but whatever. She lets me be me and she makes to me so happy!

So I have rented a pilot and a small air plane and I am having him fly us over this HUGE christmas Light display in Chickasa, ok. I will propose to her when we are over the lights. Do you think this is a good idea?

Also I have a problem. I dont have a ring. The reason I dont have a ring is because we are having one custom made. What should I do about this?


Its not that I dont have the money buy why buy a ring when I we are having one made? She dont want to have it made till were engaged. SO what are your opinions? What should I do?


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Not sure but getting rid of that hat would be a great start.:laugh: :peace:


Just buy her one for now and then have the other one made.:doh:

Here's a fairy tale for you.

Once upon a time a man asked a woman to marry him.

She said "no".

He lived happily ever after hunting and fishing and shooting his bow whenever he wanted. :D

marraige is a wonderful institution
if you like living in an insitution

Not sure but getting rid of that hat would be a great start.:laugh: :peace:


Just buy her one for now and then have the other one made.:doh:

Love that hat and love my 2009 Pro Elite!:peace:

Ok guys dont bash on me to bad! Yes as some say im fixing to give up my man card but whatever. She lets me be me and she makes to me so happy!

So I have rented a pilot and a small air plane and I am having him fly us over this HUGE christmas Light display in Chickasa, ok. I will propose to her when we are over the lights. Do you think this is a good idea?

Also I have a problem. I dont have a ring. The reason I dont have a ring is because we are having one custom made. What should I do about this?


Its not that I dont have the money buy why buy a ring when I we are having one made? She dont want to have it made till were engaged. SO what are your opinions? What should I do?


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I would at least buy a cheepie band or something for the symbolism of it all. I say if you know what your getting into, then get into it. Only you know if you should or not. But if your unsure run like hell! The things about her that bother you now will only bother you more in 10 years! :lol:

Good luck bud!

Ben

Love that hat and love my 2009 Pro Elite!:peace:

No comment.

IF YOU MUST:laugh: ......

use some creativity and make a ring.....the more silly you can make it, the better.....she will remember this for the rest of her life.....and ya'll will be telling this story for years to come.......

OR

do you have a relitive that would loan you a ring? maybe something they dont use any more......

WAIT, HOLD THE PHONE........she knows about the custom ring??:noidea:

Ryan you really are messed up with this girl.......you arent even typing in clear sentences??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Personally Ryan, I like the hat, but now if she was to lose that leopard looking halter I'd say Yessssssss Sirrreee! In a heartbeat. Just one thing that's got me puzzled buddy, is that the girl I talked to when we were in Tejas, cause it sure don't look like her picture. Course she's got more clothes on in this one!!!
Alright now for some real words of wisdom! My Mama told me once to be careful with chasin' women cause I might get hold of a bad one! Daddy overheard this and said, "Boy your Mama's tryin' to tell you right, but what she shoulda said was Try Em all you might miss a goodun!!!!" Words to live by.
As far as you marrying this one, well you should'nt have to ask. You just know. Wrong or right. You just know.
As far as the ring, make one for her out of serving material, It'll mean something to her even after she gets her real one, and it'll mean somethin' to you, that you love something as much or more than our sport!!!
But what the hell do I know, I've been divorced 22 years.:doh: Good luck anyway buddy!
Later,
Billy

Personally Ryan, I like the hat, but now if she was to lose that leopard looking halter I'd say Yessssssss Sirrreee! In a heartbeat. Just one thing that's got me puzzled buddy, is that the girl I talked to when we were in Tejas, cause it sure don't look like her picture. Course she's got more clothes on in this one!!!
Alright now for some real words of wisdom! My Mama told me once to be careful with chasin' women cause I might get hold of a bad one! Daddy overheard this and said, "Boy your Mama's tryin' to tell you right, but what she shoulda said was Try Em all you might miss a goodun!!!!" Words to live by.
As far as you marrying this one, well you should'nt have to ask. You just know. Wrong or right. You just know.
As far as the ring, make one for her out of serving material, It'll mean something to her even after she gets her real one, and it'll mean somethin' to you, that you love something as much or more than our sport!!!
But what the hell do I know, I've been divorced 22 years.:doh: Good luck anyway buddy!
Later,
Billy

LOL NO THIS IS NOT THE SAME GIRL! LOL

And this is a done deal! Just wanted to ask other people opinions on the ring!

Buy a big ole CZ!! Cubic Zirconia Ring

the C4 doesnt even come close in WEIGHT to that lump of a bow from hoyt.....

Will you two knock it off....:doh: :doh: This is serious...:censored: Ryan best as I could tell ya buddy is while your flyin over those lights jump out of the plane and save yourself years of pain and suffering.... :laugh: :laugh:

Speed isnt the only thing that Mathews fibs on the high side of.......

How many threads can you high jack? Get a life!:peace:

My wife , after reading your quandary, advises :
"Get her a small charm/pendant in a charm bracelet, containing her birthstone, or a snorflake or angel, or something else signifigant to teh event to give her on the plane-ride to "remember the day" and when/if she gets all gushy and sentimental, ask her if it can also serve as you engagement token until her ring is made.":amen:

while your flyin over those lights jump out of the plane and save yourself years of pain and suffering.... :laugh: :laugh:


THAT would be MY suggestion!

Get'em Ryan!

Ryan-

Very attractive lady. in regards to the ring thing, when i asked my wife to marry didnt have the money for a ring or a band, so i made one out of a straw. luckily she said yes and we have been married 26 years come april. she still has that straw band i made her for a ring. good luck to you. oh, and yes i did get her a real ring later.

Buy her a Diamond.................By bowtech:rockon:

My wife , after reading your quandary, advises :
"Get her a small charm/pendant in a charm bracelet, containing her birthstone, or a snorflake or angel, or something else signifigant to teh event to give her on the plane-ride to "remember the day" and when/if she gets all gushy and sentimental, ask her if it can also serve as you engagement token until her ring is made.":amen:

Squid, you need to ask your wife what a snorflake is... And then let us know. :laugh:

Ron

You go for it. Your one lucky guy for sure.

Wish you guys well. Couldnt happen to a nicer guy.

I looked forward to meeting her.
DB

Ok guys dont bash on me to bad! Yes as some say im fixing to give up my man card but whatever. She lets me be me and she makes to me so happy!

So I have rented a pilot and a small air plane and I am having him fly us over this HUGE christmas Light display in Chickasa, ok. I will propose to her when we are over the lights. Do you think this is a good idea?

Also I have a problem. I dont have a ring. The reason I dont have a ring is because we are having one custom made. What should I do about this?


Its not that I dont have the money buy why buy a ring when I we are having one made? She dont want to have it made till were engaged. SO what are your opinions? What should I do?


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v374/RyansH/yamatoes/CIMG0572.jpg

Why do you need to have a temporary ring ?

Just call it an engagement and then do your custom ring deal.

What's the issue with that ?

You guys do your own thing and ignore the folks around you.

Those Hoyts can cause trouble in a relationship by the way. :frusty:

Ron

Danno was telling me you found you a sugar mama!!!!!! The best thing about that picture is she is hiding most of you, JUST KIDDING BUDDY!!!!!!!! They do say behind every good man their is a good woman. Seriously congrats and good luck.

I did it without a ring and we went shopping the following weekend, but then again I'm about as unromantic as it gets. SandSquid's wife has a pretty good idea. As for marriage if you found a good one I'd recommend it.

Ryan,

Congrats man! I also proposed at the Chickasa christmas lights, although I did it on the ground. No need to buy a ring since you both plan on having one custom made unless you just wanted to buy a simple band. Like others have said if you make one, she will probably keep it forever.

Congrats again,

Richard

i have been married for four years now. i didnt have a ring either. well there wasnt really a proposal either. we just set a date. and let me tell yah. things arent like they were before the marraige. but good luck and i wish you both well

Thanks Guys!

Ill be calling my Okie Friends that night!

Here's what I did in the situation you are in.

Several years ago I had bought my mother a Past/Present/Future rings for Christmas. It has has the 3 diamonds. My mother passed a little before Sarah and I were engaged and I didn't have her 'engagement' ring paid off, so I gave her my mother's ring when I asked her hand in marriage. A month or so later, I gave her her 'engagement' ring.

My suggestion is give her something sentimental from your mother or possibly buy her a smaller Past/Present/Future ring as a 'promise' ring. I know, the promise ring highschooly for 'permission to get in your pants' stuff, but it would be something she would cherish.

Again, Congratulations! :peace:

Ok guys dont bash on me to bad! Yes as some say im fixing to give up my man card but whatever. She lets me be me and she makes to me so happy!

So I have rented a pilot and a small air plane and I am having him fly us over this HUGE christmas Light display in Chickasa, ok. I will propose to her when we are over the lights. Do you think this is a good idea?

Also I have a problem. I dont have a ring. The reason I dont have a ring is because we are having one custom made. What should I do about this?


Its not that I dont have the money buy why buy a ring when I we are having one made? She dont want to have it made till were engaged. SO what are your opinions? What should I do?


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v374/RyansH/yamatoes/CIMG0572.jpg


man....why would you have an engagement ring custom made?

wedding ring...I can see those being custom.

I guess, just go buy an el cheapy wedding band for like $50 so she has something to put on her finger....but I still don't like the custom engagement ring idea, nor do I like women picking out their engagement rings either, wedding band, k.

But, you did one thing right, she's hot. :rockon:

Congrats. :hug:

Congratulations... to both of you


Just remember marriage is like owning a boat... :D

Go for it bud............I know your happy and like many have said marriage can be one of the best things you've ever experience. Just remember that marriage is alot of work................I also believe that when you are looking to marry just remember that you will be with that woman for a lifetime.

It would appear she already knows about the ring??? So in a way she already knows you intend on marrying her??? I like the braclet idea or just give her a hug and say you will get the ring when its done. Good luck.

Go for it bud............I know your happy and like many have said marriage can be one of the best things you've ever experience. ....

...or the worst. :frusty:

I agree with the slippy man..... I had a bad ( i mean bad marriage) marriage years ago...I still think she's Satan's sister or Daughter....



but now I am married to the "Gert"...best move I have ever made

Buy a Nice Birthstone ring with the December birthstone...tell her you choose this until the custom one is finished to represent the month you proposed to her...she can then always where this ring on the opposite hand...and it will show you put some thought into...plus ..she'll have another meaningful ring

your welcome:wave:

...or the worst. :frusty:




Yep Slippy you are right................I imposed the 5 year rule on my wife. After we were together about a year she mentioned marriage. I told her that if we could stay together 5 years I would get married. My parents marriage was horrible and I wanted no part of marriage after seeing that. I think my wife thought I was joking................We lived together 6 years before we finally decided to get married and I couldn't be happier. First 5 years are rough man............If you can make it thru those it gets alot easier. I promise that you don't really know your wife til year 4.............then in year 4 you question your relationship. Year 5 however you realize how lucky you are. One thing you have to remember is everyone has flaws............No woman is going to be perfect.

Yep Slippy you are right................I imposed the 5 year rule on my wife. After we were together about a year she mentioned marriage. I told her that if we could stay together 5 years I would get married. My parents marriage was horrible and I wanted no part of marriage after seeing that. I think my wife thought I was joking................We lived together 6 years before we finally decided to get married and I couldn't be happier. First 5 years are rough man............If you can make it thru those it gets alot easier. I promise that you don't really know your wife til year 4.............then in year 4 you question your relationship. Year 5 however you realize how lucky you are. One thing you have to remember is everyone has flaws............No woman is going to be perfect.

5.5 in the books.....:frusty:

5.5 in the books.....:frusty:
35 1/2 to this one...:D

35 1/2 to this one...:D

old geezer, congrats though. :hug:

Congratulations... to both of you


Just remember marriage is like owning a boat... :D


What? The 2 happiest days of owning a boat are the day you buy it, and the day you sell it? :lol: :D

What? The 2 happiest days of owning a boat are the day you buy it, and the day you sell it? :lol: :D


yep... :peace:

I think I got most of the offtopic crapola off this thread. :frusty:

The poor guy had a legitimate question and actually wanted your advice.
STAY ON TOPIC

I think I got most of the offtopic crapola off this thread. ....



:mad: X infinity.

You could use an FOB for a ring! :peace:

now that I have read through all the good and bad advice, I thought I would share my opinions....
You should give her some kind of ring. Even if it is a cheap band, a plastic diamond or a braided ring...and then get that custom ring done ASAP so she has something fancy to show off!!

also, marriage in general is not bad, mine just keeps getting better......marriage is bad for many people cuz of the bad decision they made in a spouse, most just don't want to admit they made the mistake so they blame it on Marriage in general. :p

Well Im counting down the hours now!!!!!!!!!

About 12 hours left!

About 12 hours left!

how many times have you and your lady been married before?

now that I have read through all the good and bad advice, I thought I would share my opinions....
You should give her some kind of ring. Even if it is a cheap band, a plastic diamond or a braided ring...and then get that custom ring done ASAP so she has something fancy to show off!!

also, marriage in general is not bad, mine just keeps getting better......marriage is bad for many people cuz of the bad decision they made in a spouse, most just don't want to admit they made the mistake so they blame it on Marriage in general. :p

Wheely is so on it here
also a good foundation in God is a big plus
since God is love.

Congratulations... to both of you


Just remember marriage is like owning a boat... :D

My boat is a big hole in the water, I throw $100.00 bills in.

Congrats Ryan! The ring doesn't matter that much. Michael asked me to marry him about 2 weeks before he got around to buying a ring. We've been married for almost 14 years now and just getting better.

That said it would be VERY cool for her to have some kind of permanent momento to cherish from the big night, so either make her one, get one out of a .25 cent machine, or buy her another peice of jewelry like a bracelet, necklace, etc.

Let us know how it goes!

DON'T TAKE HERE IN THE DEER STAND FOR YOUR HONEYMOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :lol: :lol: :dizzy: :dizzy:

I have been married for 15 years have two beautifull girls. Still going strong.

congrats

I think I got most of the offtopic crapola off this thread. :frusty:

The poor guy had a legitimate question and actually wanted your advice.
STAY ON TOPIC

Maybe you should have also moved it to OFF TOPIC.:noidea: :biggrin1:


I told him to buy a cheapo for now then have the other one made.:peace: