OK, If you are going to shoot 3D then a little speed can come in handy so the higher draw weight makes some sense. For an adult male I'd go with a bow adjustable in the 50 - 60# range. Guess the next thing is what is your budget? One issue we may have is we know what is available here and what things cost, if that's not the case where you are you'll have to tell us. You don't need a short ATA and the longer bows are a bit easier to shoot, also the larger brace height bows are a bit easier as well.
Bear Grizzly, Easton XX75 Legacy
Black & Pink package for the Princess: Martin Mystic, Sword Apex, Limb Driver