First of all

I dont so much think the video option is needed but it is a personal option.
I bought a wild view camera from wal-mart and it works grate. the only thing i would want on a cam is the IR option. In the past i have had deer spooked by the flash but once again this is a personal option.
I dont think you will find very many 35mm cams on the market these days.
Good cams are as listed.
Wild view xtreme IR , 3.0 megapixels, 24 IR emitters, 30 ft. flash range $99.00
this is the one i use.
reconyx makes many high end cams from $350.00 to $550.00 they are the top of the line but cant see myself spending this much.
Bushnell
leaf river
stealth cam
All make good cams you will just have to look around a make a choice on which cam is in your price range and which one has the options that best suit your needs. All these are grate cams, so look around and good luck.
Hope i helped a little.